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Things you should probably avoid doing to your INFJ if you want to stay on their good side…
- Treat us or anyone else with disrespect or lack or morality
Treating someone with lack of respect is a very effective way of angering or upsetting an INFJ as we believe in equality, morality kindness, fairness and justice. If we see anyone being treated poorly, we feel practically obligated to step in and defend them. Seeing you treat someone this way will definitely make us think less of you.
- Disrespect Our Boundaries
Now this one is quite obvious as this generally applies to all people, regardless of personality type. INFJ’s are greatly affected by this, however, due to their highly sensitive personality, and again, strong morals and values. We take our boundaries very seriously, and when they are disregarded it can leave us feeling very hurt, disrespected, annoyed, and definitely angry. It will lead us to the conclusion that you couldn’t care less about our ideals and that you are ignorant to social cues and humility.
- Treat Us Like We’re Stupid
Yes, INFJ’s are a feeling type and we make our decisions based on our emotions, however, this does not make us completely illogical, illiterate and inarticulate. Yes, thinking types, I’m mostly looking at you. Just as thinking types feel emotion, yes, feeling types also have brains. You are not the only ones. We tend to be intelligent individuals and just because we aren’t interested in the things you are does not mean we don’t understand.
- Dismiss Our Attempts At Helping You
One of the tell tale signs of an INFJ is the irresistible urge to help those in need, especially those close to us. Being incredibly sensitive and in tune to other people’s emotions allows to empathize with you, while our intuition allows us to read the situation and make judgement based upon what we see, so don’t be surprised to feel like you’re in a therapy session after you tell us about your problems. Comforting and aiding others is one of our specialties, and we take it to heart when we are denied. All we want to do is help you out and we find it offensive if we are pushed away.
- Start Stupid Arguments With Us.
INFJ’s are incredibly, incredibly sensitive to conflict so we try to avoid it as much as possible, but if our opinions or ideals are directly insulted, we will most definitely fight back. INFJ’s have an amazing intuition that allows us to see scenarios and conflicts from different points of view, allowing us to understand where each person involved is coming from. This means that yes, we do know what you are trying to say, but that doesn’t mean we agree.
- Criticize Us
While some people love to hear other peoples opinions and yearn to hear what they could improve on, INFJ’s cannot handle criticism. We take anything even mildly hurtful to heart, and while we know that sometimes it can be a bit ridiculous, we really cannot help it. While we are perfectionists and want to be the best people we can be, if you find something in your INFJ that you think needs addressing, try and word it in the kindest way possible. Be careful, even with jokes.